Wednesday, March 16, 2005

The Doogster

Ya know, Doogie Howser (the MD.) used to type into a diary at the end of every show. How dumb is that? What moron wastes their time typing the events of their life into a diary? ...

ANYhoo, it's nice to be dating a girl who is willing to be patient for me and to even "take a step back" to a previous way of doing things. Without being too detail oriented (a gentleman never tells), we had progressed forward to a point that I wasn't ready to be at, and after much agonizing over the "why" I wasn't ready to be there, I decided it didn't really matter why. I just wasn't. And, rather than blow the whole thing out of proportion (thanks to a great friend for helping keep my senses in line), I just talked to her about what I was feeling, said I wasn't ready to be at the level we'd just danced on, and she was cool with it (at least she said she was. I haven't been dating her long enough to know if she was just saying that, but I've been uber-honest with everything with her so far, so I'd like to think it's reciprocated.) All that being said, I do not recommend a passionate imbrace the day you get your braces adjusted. Just thought I'd warn you. Have a good night.

1 Comments:

At 1:35 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Vash,

Good to see you are sticking to your guns, mon ami! I hope that everything is going well for you and your girlfriend and I hope to hang out with both of you soon. Of course, with my crazy Greek life, that is easier said then done.

Anyway, mostly I wanted to express my sincere proud feelings for the way you are working through YOUR feelings in this new relationship. It's interesting how things change when you grow up, isn't it? Don't you wonder why no one ever told you about this when you were a kid?! I think you're doing beautifully based on your blog alone.

To quote one of the men that I adore, "Love is like oxygen. Love lifts you up where you belong. All you need is love!" Enjoy whatever stage that 'love' is in right now!

xoxo L.

 

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