Situation End

Okay, 3 out of 3 people said to just ignore her. And I couldn't... maybe I'm too nice... maybe I've been ignored one time too many... I dunno. But I had to give out resolution; I couldn't just leave it hanging. So I texted back that I was fine, how was she. She said she was about to go to sleep, could she text me tomorrow? I said something almost verbatim along the following lines:

"Hon, we have some things in common, but I just think we're two very different people. I can't handle being chided every time you disagree with me. I love you, but I don't think we're going to have any more luck as friends than we did as a couple. Please take care."

That was good, right? Short, caring, but point made. See, I couldn't just ignore her because that's something we humans do too often; because it becomes inconvenient for us to talk to someone else, we simply don't. And that's not a good way to treat people. I may not get along with her, but I still respect her and love her. Not 'cause she's my ex; because she's a human being... and because she's a specific human being. Yang love and Yin love... love because of what something is, and because of who they are. I'm going to make the effort to live my life with those two present, caring for even those I don't really like. Heh... wish me luck.