okay, a FEW more feelings

Just in brief, I'm still struggling with allowing the blame to rest on me for this breakup. My egocentric human viewpoint wants to assert myself and explain to her how she's completely off-base in regards to some of the things she thinks about me, but my "wannabe sage" side is trying to just let things lie. Unfortunately, that's not such an easy thing. I think it's inherent in people to want to push the blame onto others; pointing fingers is a common phrase for a reason. It's difficult to not point fingers, but I'm trying. I think it'll make me a better person in the long run.